Donor Programmes

Sperm and egg donor programmes connect individuals or couples who want to have a baby with donors who are willing to contribute their sperm or eggs. By participating in these programmes, people who cannot conceive with their own sperm or eggs can still experience the joy of becoming parents.

The process of becoming pregnant with a donor-conceived child may vary slightly depending on your location. Here is an example of how it typically works:

Meeting with a fertility specialist: If you are considering using a donor, you would already be seeing a fertility specialist and may have tried IVF before. Your specialist will discuss your options and suitability for donor programmes.

Counselling: In most countries, couples are required to attend counselling to understand the emotional impact of using a donor. The welfare of the future child, as well as the health risks and costs involved, will be discussed.

Choosing a donor: The fertility clinic will give you contact details for sperm or egg banks. You will register directly with these banks and use their online platform to select an anonymous donor. You will then proceed making the payment.

Using a known donor: If you choose a donor who is someone you know, like a family member or friend, they will need to visit the fertility specialist and undergo health checks to meet the clinic's criteria or any relevant regulations (MOH in the case of Singapore).

IVF procedure: Once you have selected a donor and completed all necessary preparations, the process of creating embryos and transferring them into your uterus is similar to standard IVF. If desired, the embryos can be frozen for future use.

For intended parents, these programmes offer hope and the opportunity to have a child. Donors, on the other hand, experience a sense of pride and fulfillment knowing that they have played a vital role in helping others create families and find happiness.

1. Give space for Grief if needed
It can be overwhelming to learn about infertility. Take the time to process the information and test results. Consider reaching out to a fertility counsellor who can support you in navigating your emotions and provide guidance.2. Take your Time
This is a life-changing decision, it is important not to rush. Take the necessary time to explore your options and seek a second opinion if needed.3. Be Aligned with your partner
Understand that your partner may also need time to process and accept the new information. Embrace the idea of becoming non-biological parents together.4. Seek support from a Fertility Counsellor
They can help you process your emotions, provide insights from other couples who have faced similar situations and guide you through this journey.5. Once you've made the Decision
Embrace it and move forward with confidence. Visualise yourself as a parent and express gratitude for the technological advancements that can help overcome nature's limitations.